6 BDSM Toys That Will Make You Quiver

What is BDSM & What Toys do They Have?

First we need to talk about what BDSM is and what it stands for.

The B is for Bondage. That typically refers to hand cuffs, rope,  and other types of restraints that will restricts ones movement. Being tied up gives the Dom full control over the situation.

The D is for Discipline or Dominance the choice is yours. Punishments that are agreed upon prior to sexual actions are taken by a dominant partner over a submissive partner. This is a disciplines role but it still has a Dominance that comes with it. Being the dominant doesn’t always mean causing pain or punishing your partner physically.  It does however mean you are the one in charge. Usually in charge of when or how your partner can orgasm. It can also be done at almost any point of the day.

The S is for Submission or being submissive. It’s listening to your partners commands and obeying them to both your pleasures. Many find pleasure in being completely controlled by another person. It is the erotic part of BDSM.

The M is for Sadomasochism & Masochism Both terms mean the complete opposite with sadomasochism also know as sadism is the act of causing ones pain for sexual pleasure

Yes BDSM have lots of different toys but even the toys you probably used yourself could of been used to have BDSM sex. But when we talk about toys for this type of sex we do have something different in mind. Toys like nipple clamps, sex swings, butt plugs, cock cages, and collars with leashes. These are only some of the types of toys used when people talk about bondage or BDSM sexual relationships. These are a few of the most favorite sex toys used.

Hey Cute Butt! Butt Plugs

Everyone knows what anal sex is but do you know what a butt plug is? Maybe so, but did you know there are different types of butt plugs too? From classic simple plugs that are just a conned shape and tapered for easy insertion too inflatable plugs & even vibrating plugs. There is also the butt plug tail that makes great for role playing! You can read up on some safe to use butt plug tails here.

OUCH! JK Nipple Clamps

Lets start by saying they don’t hurt unless you want them too! If your wondering what nipple clamps are, then listen up! Ever have someone pinch your nipple or yet, have someone pinch and twist your nipple? Did you like it ? I bet you did. I know you probably said ouch, or don’t do that, but deep down you sort of liked it. And maybe if you expected it, and the pain was brought on to you slowly, you would of enjoyed it more. Well that’s what nipple clamps can do for you. So if you’re a beginner we recommend an adjustable set with little to no extra weight attached. As you start to enjoy the mix of pain and pleasure with BDSM, you can use more advanced nipple clamps.  Give it a try you’ll be sure to enjoy it.

Flying Sex? Sex Swings

The best way to have weightless sex is with with a swing. Being off the ground hanging from rope or straps is sure to enhance your orgasms. They can get you in some amazing sex positions like the reclining missionary and swinging cowgirl. If your looking to really make the most out of your sex life, we highly recommend using a sex swing to broaden your horizon’s. Can you just picture yourself hanging from the sky while your partner is making you feel like you never have before. If you haven’t got yourself a sex swing by now definitely get one and when you do take a look at this article to try your first 5 sex swing positions.

Fucking Lock it up! Cock Cage

We have all seen a movie set in the old days were women would wear chastity cages so no one could have sex with them. Now we have them for men too! Instead of a massive girdle chastity that women would wear, men can use a smaller penis shaped cage that would lock. Cock cages are used to prevent men for getting erections while having a sexual encounter.

Tie Me Up? Cuffs, Rope, Restraints

One of the number one BDSM toys that would make you quiver is restraints. These can include hand cuffs, rope, to full bed bondage restraint kits. Having your partner tie you up so you have no control over how much pleasure they can give you it will be sure to blow you mind and have you knees shaking and your legs so weak you won’t be able to walk for sometime after! The power of having complete control over someone else’s orgasm is both exhilarating and powerful. And let’s  be realistic, BDSM is all about someone having control and someone being controlled.

Shut Me Up! Ball Gags

If you ever doing any research on BDSM, you most definitely will come across ball gags. These silicone balls with straps attached are a common toy in the bondage world. They prevent your partner from speaking or communicating during play time. The act of being helpless can be an erotic experience for both parties which heightens arousal during bondage. There are several different types of gag balls. Trying a variety of them will narrow down the best one for you and what turns you on the most.

BDSM is not for everyone. But for those that like to play in this erotic world, there are endless toys to help you enjoy it. The most important part is knowing that your partner is a complete willing partner and you have discussed this prior to starting. Many BDSM players have contracts between the Sub and Dom so everyone knows their boundaries.  Pick your toys and enjoy your sexy time. And don’t forget to give your sub a good spanking.